My Aunt, The Soup Lady
Myrt was a live-wire, always one of the social sparks in a family of apparent introverts.
Category: Tributes
I’ve been honored to create memorials for some family members and friends as well. These tributes have allowed me to process my emotions and share feelings that have provided me therapy and others comfort.
Ode to the Son of a Farmer
By Susan Dempsey April, 2024 Robert is one of my more than thirty first cousins on my mom’s side of the family. We lost him recently to severe COPD, after years of his suffering with breathing issues. I’ve paused to think about him, his place in the family now vacant, and to ponder our brief … read more
Sometimes a 4 Letter Word is Called For
Aunt Florence was known for her colorful language. We need to learn to do as she did, “tell it like it is.”
Ron Williams – You Earned This
No matter our ages, when one of our contemporaries dies, it hits a little harder. It makes us face the inevitable. It gives us pause to reflect upon our purpose on Earth and to examine our progress or even our failures. We’ve had another loss in our family this week when Cousin Ron Williams passed … read more
O Brother, Who’s Not Mine but Close
I was driving home from work today when Luke Bryan’s Drink a Beer came on the radio. I turned it up, and I prepped myself to cry. That song had always tugged at my heart, but today I was sure that the notes riding the air waves would rip it out of my chest. A … read more
A Toast to Heroes…You Know Who You Are
Most of us have our heroes in life, and I’m fortunate to have more than a few. My heroes are abundant. Heroes have appeared throughout my life in all shapes, sizes, colors and genders. They’ve taken on the bullies, the misfortunes, the embarrassments and the accidents I’ve suffered with grace, with strength and with compassion. … read more
Uncles are Special
Uncles are special, it’s true. But when they’ve married into a family like ours, you know they must be characters as well as some of the “good guys.” The Pedersens have been known to laugh a lot, to love a lot, and to gather together often and share fun…a lot. We are that family others … read more
Loren, This Pickle's For You
By Susan Dempsey Sept. 28, 2017 Loren, one of my many first cousins, died last night after a long battle with debilitating illness that started when he was young. He was 62, and he’d suffered, especially the past couple years, with a crumbling spine and all its effects on his struggling physique. I tell you … read more
Aunt Viola, a Memory Cherished, and a Sound Now Missed.
As I received another message from a sibling about another of my aunts who left us, it hit me harder than I would’ve expected. I always thought it would become easier as I grew older, to say goodbye to loved ones who’ve left this world. But it’s not. It’s more like a sharp jab at … read more
Ode to Aunt Ginny, May 30, 2015
May 30, 2015 “Please don’t squeeze my Charmin, don’t squeeze her so tight…” I still remember Uncle Garland singing that chorus at many family events. We all enjoyed it, but we all knew he sang it for Aunt Ginny. You could see the twinkle in his eyes. What is it about her that he so … read more